IS HOUSEWORK DEGRADING?
Is really housework degrading? Do you believe you are being degraded when you are cleaning your house? Can you call yourself a king when you have a lot of dishes to wash but you are watching TV? Do you yourself want to accept your duty in living or you are in those groups that say "Take it easy, no matter. WE ARE NOT DISH WASHERS, are we?" In fact we can categorize people's point of view in 2 categories: 1.Men's point of view and 2.women's point of view.

We have tow kinds of beliefs in men's opinion. One of them is related to the persons who think that housework is created only for women and if they help their wives, they are doing a degrading work and is opposite of a man's characteristic. But the second kind which have more fans between women are the men who believe themselves as a MEMBER of the house and love helping their wives because they know that house work is a hard job to overcome alone.

Women also are divided into two groups: The members of the first group are the women who think if they accept housework as their main duty, their husbands will consider them as a worker in the house and it is actually a low class label for them. But even now there are a lot of women who know that if they don't accept their own duty in the house, their whole life may be destroyed. They know that they should be a responsible wife for their husbands and absolutely a good mother for their children. Children are making the world's future and they should be trained basically and house is the only place that could shape their characteristic and absolutely their strategy of life.

One of the most important matter that should never be ignored is this: You, all men and women, should believe that the importance of something like love are never going to be decreased. If you accept the housework as a basic factor which can keep the construction of your living stronger, you never consider it as a degrading work. You show respect to your own life if you do your best to keep the atmosphere of your home calm. Women should accept that they have more responsibilities than men because they spend more time in the house and if they do their best, they will be a real queen.

You all are responsible for the gifts that God gave to you like your husband/wife, your children … Try your best to be honest in front of your God.